Kelly has been coming to Cathedral Kitchen four to five days a week for two years with her children, Connie and Ashton. The family loves coming for the meals, groceries, and personal care items. They especially look forward to Wednesdays when Connie and Ashton can get books from the Free Books Project, one of our weekly partners. Connie has been on a James Patterson kick, and Ashton loves all things Stephen King. They’re such avid readers that Tom, the director of the Free Books Project, will save books he thinks the kids will like for their next visit.
Living in Woodbury without a nearby support system and unable to drive, Kelly relies on Access Link transportation to make the trip. She manages multiple chronic illnesses stemming from undiagnosed Lyme disease in childhood, along with the demands of caring for her daughter, who has autism, and managing many doctors’ appointments. These challenges have made steady employment nearly impossible. The family lives on just $890 a month in Social Security Income. Kelly regularly makes hard choices between necessities. Cathedral Kitchen’s meals mean keeping the lights on—literally.
“I make sure the food at home is for the kids, so a lot of the time, this meal at Cathedral Kitchen is the only time I eat in the day. The meal, snack bag, and groceries are extremely helpful.”
Even so, Kelly is hesitant to ask for more. “I have a roof over my head; I don’t want to take away from someone who needs services more.”
Like many guests, she puts others before herself. With encouragement, she’s considering using our Empowerment Services to help her daughter obtain a state ID—something she’s struggled to navigate alone.
In addition to the meals and groceries, CK is an important social resource. Kelly met her best friend here, who she describes as chosen family. The routine of coming to Cathedral Kitchen also helps push her to shower and get out of the house, especially when she’s struggling with her mental health.
“It seems small, but when I walk in, they know me by name. It feels nice to know there are friendly people, you’re always welcome, and you’re wanted.”
Meals are just the beginning of what makes Cathedral Kitchen special for Kelly. It has become a place of community where she feels safe, welcomed, and happy.
